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Recognizing the Signs of Trauma in Teens – A Parent’s Perspective

Recognizing the Signs of Trauma in Teens - A Parents Perspective

Imagine witnessing your teenager withdraw from activities they once loved or noticing them scan a room as they enter and jump at sudden noises, all signs that hint at deeper emotional turmoil. Many parents dread this scenario, yet the reality is staggering. 

At Nexus Teen Academy, we understand the struggle to find a trusted support system to help your teenager through this distressing experience. As a trusted resource in teen mental health treatment, we’re committed to guiding parents and teenagers through difficult times.

In this guide, we aim to empower parents with practical tools for observation and action. We will also discuss the gender-specific signs and symptoms of teen trauma and the need for professional intervention. Through fostering awareness, parents can create a supportive environment for their teens battling trauma.

Understanding Trauma in Teens

Trauma in teens refers to an intense response to an event, witnessed either directly or indirectly, where your teen perceives their well-being, safety, and life to be at risk. In adolescents, trauma can be triggered by a wide range of events. This includes:

  • Physical, emotional, or sexual abuse.
  • Natural disasters, e.g., earthquakes, floods.
  •  Separation or death of a loved one.
  • Medical trauma. e.g., life-threatening medical conditions or frequent medical procedures.
  • Accidents, e.g. vehicle accidents, pedestrian accidents, sports injuries, etc.
  • Community violence like riots, and school shootings.
  • Sexual assault or harassment.

Despite the type of trauma a teen is exposed to, the consequences are profound. It affects the emotional, physical, and overall well-being of a teenager. Some of the effects include;

  • Feeling shame, guilt, fear, anger, and low self-worth.
  • Difficulty in regulating emotions.
  • Numbing, detaching their emotions from memories, behaviors, and thoughts.
  • Physical disorders include cardiovascular, neurological, respiratory, and musculoskeletal disorders. Teens can also experience sleep disturbance, dermatological disorders, and gastrointestinal issues.
  • Altering a teen’s cognitive functions such as concentration and memory.

The Observation Tool - A Parent's Guide

Identifying the symptoms of various types of trauma in teenagers can be challenging. Our expert assists you with a questionnaire designed to help you recognize when something may not be right with your teen. These questionnaires are specifically tailored to observe their behaviors, providing a supportive tool for identifying potential issues.

Behavioral Signs of Trauma

Here are questions designed to help parents identify the symptoms of trauma in their teenagers based on changes in behavior.

Changes in Sleeping Patterns

  • Has your teen’s sleeping schedule shifted dramatically?
  • Is your teen finding it difficult to stay awake or wake up on time?
  • Does your teenager have night terror when they eventually fall asleep?

Sudden Disinterest in Favorite Activities

  • Has your teenager stopped engaging in activities they once enjoyed?
  • Do they feign sickness or exhaustion as an excuse to skip participating in hobbies?

Unexplained Aggression or Irritability

  • Have you noticed excessive aggression in your teenager’s behavior?
  • Does your teenager get mad over insignificant issues?
  • Do they have frequent emotional outbursts towards friends and family?

Withdrawal From Family and Social Interactions

  • Has your teenager been spending more time alone?
  • Do they avoid family gatherings or activities with friends?
  • Do they make excuses when asked to participate in family activities?

Changes in Eating Patterns

  • Have there been any significant changes in your teen’s eating habits?
  • Do they eat more, eat less, or do not eat at all?
  • Does your teenager express concerns about their body image or show signs of unhealthy eating behaviors?

Emotional Signs of Trauma

One of the ways to ascertain whether your teenager is a trauma victim is to observe their emotions. Always being in a bad or low mood is a sign that your teenager may be suffering from trauma.

Expressions of Hopelessness

  • Has your teen been verbalizing how hopeless they are?
  • Do they seem to be in constant despair?
  • Do they express sentiments like life is not worth living?

Increased Sensitivity to Rejection or Failure

  • Has your teenager been hyper-focused on avoiding mistakes?
  • Do they set unrealistic pressure on themselves to succeed?
  • Has your teen been reacting strongly to minor failures?
  • Do they avoid participating in activities due to fear of humiliation?
  • Do they engage in negative self-talk when things do not turn out as expected?

Signs of Anxiety or Panic Without Obvious Triggers

  • Does your teenager appear jumpy on or on edge at all times?
  • Do they discuss their anxiety about impending danger?
  • Have you noticed any change in their ability to concentrate?
  • Do they have intense episodes of panic attacks?

Emotional Outbursts

  • Have you teenagers experienced sudden outbursts of anger or aggression?
  • Does your teen find it difficult to control their emotions?
  • Do they have random bouts of crying spells or mood swings?
  • Do they seem overwhelmed by sadness or despair?

Avoidance of Emotions

  • Has your teen been avoiding discussions about their emotional health?
  • Have they been showing signs of suppressing their thoughts and emotions?
  • Do they feel numb or disconnected from their emotions at times?

Difficulty Trusting Others

  • Have you noticed sudden changes in your teenager’s ability to trust others?
  • Do they find it hard to open up to friends or family members about their feelings?
  • Have they become more guarded or suspicious of others’ intentions?

Feelings of Guilt or Shame

  • Do your teens constantly blame themselves when things go wrong?
  • Does it feel like you’re carrying a burden that’s hard to share with others?
  • Do they look withdrawn, like they are going through emotional turmoil?

Academic and Social Signs of Trauma

A teenager’s academic and social life is also affected when a teen is exposed to extremely distressing events. There are several educational and social signs parents need to observe to gauge whether a teenager is a trauma victim.

Attendance and Participation

  • Have you noticed any changes in your teenager’s attendance at school?
  • Does your teenager seem less engaged in class activities than usual?
  • Has your teenager been skipping classes or avoiding school altogether?

Academic Performance

  • Have you observed any changes in your teenager’s academic performance?
  • Does your teenager struggle or forget to complete assignments?
  • Have you observed any strain in your teenagers’ focus on schoolwork?
  • Have you received any reports concerning your teenager’s declining grades?

Motivation and Goal Setting

  • Has your teenager shown a decrease in motivation for academic goals?
  • Do they seem less enthusiastic about their future career plans
  • Have they expressed feelings of hopelessness about their academic future?

Changes in Friend Groups or Isolation from Peers

  • Have you noticed a change in your teenager’s friend group? 
  • Has your teenager been involved in numerous fights and disagreements with their peers?
  • Is your teenager reluctant to engage in peer activities?

Changes in Social Behavior

  • Have you noticed your teenager displaying unusual behaviors like aggression in social settings?
  • Does your teenager seem defensive while interacting with peers?
  • Have you noticed any signs of being overly sensitive to criticism or rejection from peers?

Bullying or Victimization

  • Has your teenager experienced bullying at school?
  • Has your teenager mentioned experiencing any form of bullying or harassment at school?
  • Have you received any reports of your teenager bullying their peers?

Social Anxiety

  • Does your teenager experience anxiety or discomfort in social situations?
  • Have they expressed fears of being judged by their peers?
  • Do they avoid social gatherings or events due to anxiety?

Gender-Specific Signs of Trauma

There is a wide difference in the signs exhibited by teenage boys and teenage girls exposed to trauma. According to research comparing victimization and accidental trauma, men showed more signs of negative self-perception.

Several factors may influence gender-specific signs of trauma in teenage girls and boys. One factor is that both men and women express emotions differently. This may affect the signs they choose to suppress and those they choose to show. Some factors include gender norms, cultural expectations, and biological differences. Boys and girls also have different coping skills, a factor that largely affects how they handle trauma.

Signs More Common in Boys

Teenage boys experiencing adolescent trauma may portray different signs as compared to their female counterparts. Some of the signs likely to be portrayed include:

Increased Risk-taking Behaviors

Emotional distress is one of the side effects of most trauma victims. To mask the emotional distress, teenage boys may resort to engaging in risky behaviors as a coping mechanism. Some of the dangerous behaviors include reckless driving, drug abuse, risky sexual behaviors, and acts of violence.

Aggression Towards Others or Self

Teenage boys suffering from trauma may also display active aggression toward themselves or people around them. You may notice your teenager acting out by damaging property, punching walls, or bullying their peers. All of this may be an attempt to externalize and communicate their pain.

Hiding Emotions or Playing Down Serious Events

Society has always expected boys to be strong and resilient. This may drive teenage boys to hide their emotions. They may also downplay their feelings by remarking that their problems are not serious.

Other signs that may be more prevalent in boys than girls include: 

  • Excessive use of technology, e.g., video games, to mask their pain
  • Embracing nonverbal communication to avoid talking about their experiences.
  • Impulsive actions and decisions.
  • Reluctance in seeking help.

Signs More Common in Girls

Girls often exhibit certain traits when it comes to experiencing trauma. Some of the specific characteristics you should be on the lookout for include:

Sudden Changes in Eating Habits or Body Image Issues

One of the side effects of trauma is shifts in eating patterns. Sudden changes in eating habits and obsession with body image in your teen girl may be a sign of eating disorders. Research done on individuals with traumatic stress reveals that trauma affects eating patterns. Some may use it as a coping mechanism, while others experience a lack of appetite.

Sexual trauma victims also experience heightened body dissatisfaction. Such consciousness may eventually lead to body dysmorphic disorder.

Withdrawal from Friends and Family in Favor of Spending Time Alone

Most women tend to emphasize interpersonal relationships. Whether your teen is outgoing or not, it is common for them to have one or a few close friends. When your teen starts isolating and avoiding interactions with close friends, it may be a sign that they are battling trauma.

Expressing Feelings of Guilt or Shame Over Everyday Actions

Individuals who have experienced trauma often blame themselves for various reasons. It may stem from helplessness, survivors’ guilt, or as a coping mechanism. Your teenage girl constantly expressing how guilty they feel may be a sign of trauma. They may also hint that they feel shame. When you notice such behaviors, have a conversation with them. They may be hinting they went through a horrible event and would love help.

From Observation to Action

After identifying potential signs of trauma in teens, parents need to take the next best step: communication. A lot of teens may feel shameful about their trauma. They may be resistant to talking about their sudden shifts in behaviors. As a parent, know how to communicate with your teenager. Instead of forcing them to open up, create a safe environment. Create a positive environment, reassure them you want the best for them, and they can talk to you when they feel ready. 

When your teen finally opens up to you, do not judge them, regardless of the situation. Provide support and encourage them that you are there for them. 

You also need to seek professional treatment for your teen. It does not matter how okay they think they are; trauma healing is not linear. Look for effective treatment programs like the ones offered at Nexus Teen Academy. At Nexus, we have gender-sensitive, Trauma-Informed Treatment personalized to suit your teenager’s needs. We also have a dedicated team of experts to support your adolescent trauma recovery. Remember, you are not alone in this trauma recovery journey. We care about you and will provide a lifeline for your teen.

Conclusion

Trauma is a stressful event that undermines a teenager’s coping skills. It has several signs and symptoms and may manifest differently depending on the individual. To understand whether a teenager is battling trauma, parents need to embrace the observation tool. The questionnaire lets parents observe their teenagers’ emotions, habits, behaviors, and significant shifts. After noticing potential signs of trauma, parents need to seek professional intervention for their teen.

At Nexus Teen Academy, we offer tailored adolescent care. We also provide gender-sensitive trauma treatment modalities, ensuring holistic treatment. Have you noticed trauma signs in your teen or a teenager you know? Contact us today to get them the early intervention they need. Together, we can collaborate to create your teen a haven for healing and growth.

Frequently Asked Questions

It is normal for teenagers to feel sad from time to time. However, persistent sadness, anger, and guilt may be a sign of trauma. Other symptoms include withdrawal from social interactions, hopelessness, and a dramatic shift in both sleeping and eating habits.

Yes, it can. It is commonly referred to as delayed-onset PTSD. A teenager may seem to cope well, but after weeks, months, or even years, they may start experiencing trauma symptoms.

Practice patience and validate their feelings and experiences. Remind them they are not alone and that you support them. You can also teach them the benefits of therapy for adolescent trauma care.

Therapies like trauma-focused cognitive-behavioral therapy (TF-CBT) and eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) have shown effectiveness in trauma care. Additionally, dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) also works for trauma treatment.

Nexus Teen Academy has various resources for parents navigating teen trauma recovery. Organizations like the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) also offer support to both parents and teens suffering from mental health-related concerns.

Practice self-care strategies and positive coping mechanisms, such as mindfulness meditation. You can also seek therapy, create positive boundaries, and maintain a strong support network.

Schools offer resources like counseling and support groups for adolescent trauma care. Parents can collaborate by maintaining open communication and attending meetings to advocate for their teen’s needs. They can also encourage their teen to participate in school-based teen trauma support programs.

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