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My Daughter or Son is Dabbing: What Should I Do?

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Learning that your son or daughter engages in certain behaviors can be unsettling and confusing. For example, dabbing marijuana, a less familiar term, may trigger more questions than answers, especially about its implications and teen safety. Unfortunately, it is usually more dangerous than smoking. If you are wondering what to do if your daughter or son is dabbing, consider this a compassionate, fact-based roadmap. 

We will describe teen dabbing, the risks it poses, the signs to watch out for, and how to respond. Continue reading to discover how Nexus Teen Academy can help you address teen dabbing, or reach out to our team now to get help immediately. 

What is Dabbing? 

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Before tackling teen dabbing, you should understand what it is and how it differs from traditional marijuana smoking. The section below explains what dabbing is, the process, and why it tends to be riskier for teenagers. 

Definition and Process

Dabbing involves inhaling THC concentrates. Most teens use either a dab ring or a vape device to heat and inhale these cannabis extracts. The THC concentration in a single dose may reach 60-80%, several times more than that of marijuana flower. 

Why It’s More Potent & Risky 

Dabbing delivers a much more powerful high. It is more intoxicating than vaping or smoking cannabis. A single dose can cause the following effects:

  • Intense euphoria 
  • Overwhelming sedation
  • A sudden drop in blood pressure 
  • Dizziness or nausea

Dabbing puts teenagers at risk of numerous health concerns. Their bodies are usually less equipped to handle high concentrations of THC. They may become more vulnerable to dangerous behaviors, accidents, and mental health issues. 

Health Unknowns & Butane Concerns

There are fewer studies on the long-term effects of dabbing. However, here are a few concerns:

  • Lung injuries: Impure or poorly processed THC concentrates may contain harmful compounds. These may harm the lungs. 
  • Respiratory risks: The remains of Butane or other solvents can irritate the lungs. They can also trigger chronic coughing. 
  • Unknowns: Dabbing is a relatively new behavior. Therefore, most of its potential long-term health effects remain unclear. 

Dabbing means much more than just “stronger weed”. It is a different and hazardous form of THC intake. 

Your First Steps When You Discover Your Teen Dabbing 

It is normal to feel overwhelmed if you learn of your teen’s dabbing behavior. However, your reaction, especially in the first moments, will influence your son’s or daughter’s honesty. They will be more willing to collaborate towards addressing the issue if you use a proper approach. Consider the following steps:

Stay Calm & Avoid Judgement 

It is okay and even natural to feel angry or disappointed at your son, daughter, and even their friends. However, instead of judgment or confrontation:

  • Breathe deeply before facing them or responding
  • Handle the situation with empathy
  • Be compassionate 

Your goal should be to help, not punish your teenager. Handling the situation calmly shows that you are a safe person to talk to. It creates a safe space for future conversations. 

Educate Yourself Before Responding 

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Understand the basics of dabbing before having a conversation with your teenager. Here are a few areas to research: 

  • Potency levels: Find out why dabbing is riskier than smoking marijuana. Begin by exploring the concentration of THC. 
  • Effects: Focus on both short-term and long-term effects of dabbing. 
  • Teen rationale: Discover how teenagers usually justify dabbing. For example, some believe it is safer than smoking since it involves less smoke. 

Educating yourself is crucial for credible guidance. You can counter myths with facts if you have accurate information. 

Start Compassionate Conversations 

Talking to teenagers about sensitive issues can be challenging. However, you can always set the stage for open, non-confrontational dialogue. Here are a few questions to steer the conversation: 

  • “I recently learned of a practice known as dabbing. What do you know about it?”
  • “According to some, dabbing is safer than smoking. Do you think it is true?”
  • “Can you share with me how you first learned of/ got interested in dabbing?” 

Through such questions, you communicate your respect for your teenager’s perspective. As a result, they may be more willing to open up, helping you understand their motivations. 

Clarify Your Values & Boundaries 

Openly share your concerns after listening to your teenager. However, do not turn the experience into a lecture. You should: 

  • Emphasize your love and concern for their safety
  • Communicate and reinforce your family’s rules and expectations regarding drug use
  • Clarify that boundaries are not meant to punish them, but to protect their well-being 

An approach that balances compassion and firmness helps build trust. It motivates your teenager to share their perspectives and collaborate towards solution-finding. 

The Risks of Dabbing for Teens 

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Puberty is crucial for brain development. Most teenagers view dabbing as another form of “marijuana intake.” However, the high THC concentration can interfere with their developing brains. Below are a few possible devastating impacts. 

Cognitive & Mental Health Impacts 

Dabbing can lead to the following cognitive and mental health issues: 

  • Cognitive impairment: THC can interfere with the brain regions responsible for attention, memory, and executive function. As a result, teens may struggle to learn, focus in school, or make sound decisions. 
  • Increased mental health risks: Dabbing can cause or worsen mental health issues in teenagers. Users may experience a sharp increase in teen anxiety, depression, and paranoia. The overwhelming THC concentration can even trigger psychosis. 

Higher Addiction Potential 

Individuals who dab are more likely to get hooked on the behavior. The high THC concentration fuels dependency. With time, teenage boys and girls may experience the following: 

  • Increased tolerance: They may need to dab more to achieve similar effects. 
  • Cravings: Intense craving for THC intake may trigger repeated dabbing. 
  • Withdrawal symptoms: Teens may experience severe withdrawal if they stop dabbing. The most common symptoms include irritability, loss of appetite, and insomnia. 

Adolescent Brain Vulnerability

The teenager’s brain is not fully mature. While some parts develop fully during this period, others do not. These include the prefrontal cortex, which helps teenagers regulate impulses and make rational decisions. As a result, their brain are more vulnerable to the heavy THC intake associated with dabbing. This behavior can:

  • Alter the brain’s development pathways
  • Reduce motivation, leading to poor academic performance
  • Interfere with a teenager’s emotional regulation and overall resilience

Do not treat dabbing as a simple risky behavior. It is a threat to a teenager’s mental health and growth. 

Spotting the Signs of Dabbing in Teens 

Unlike smoking marijuana, dab rings and vape devices are quite discreet. As a result, a dabbing teen may be difficult to identify. However, you can stay ahead by looking out for the following: 

Behavioral & Mood Changes

Heavy THC intake can lead to the following: 

  • Sudden intense mood swings: Watch out for lethargy, anxiety, and irritability in teens. 
  • Loss of motivation: Be alarmed if your teenager becomes less concerned about their life. This often covers various aspects of their lives. 
  • Cognitive issues: Watch out for poor focus or memory issues. Dabbing teens may also struggle to concentrate or solve problems. 

Be keen. Dabbing can also impair a teenager’s ability to follow conversations.

Concealment & New Habits

You can tell your teenager is dabbing through certain behaviors and possessions. Treat the following as massive red flags: 

  • Possession of dabbing paraphernalia: Look out for dab rings, vape pens, or torches. 
  • A unique smell: A sweet, fruity smell or chemical orders in your son’s room or clothing may signify they are dabbing. 
  • Increased secrecy: Act if your teenager immediately starts keeping secrets. 

Social Withdrawal & Motivation Drop

Minimal social interactions or reduced motivation are significant indicators of teen dabbing. Grow wary if your teenager: 

  • Keeps avoiding family time or past hobbies 
  • Begins to miss classes or school-related activities
  • Experiences unexplained academic decline 
  • Shifts friend groups. Your teenager may be heading in the wrong direction if they drop their normal friends for peers with questionable behaviors. 

You should intervene if you notice the above signs early enough. This can help you prevent your teenager’s dabbing behavior from growing out of control. 

Addressing Dabbing: Practical Strategies 

Identifying signs of teen dabbing is the first step. The next and most fundamental move is to address the behavior. Here are a few strategies that can help steer your teen away from this risky behavior: 

Use Evidence, Not Fear 

Despite their ongoing brain development, teens are pretty intelligent. If you were banking on using scare tactics, note that they rarely work. Instead of instilling fear, focus on credible, fact-based information. For example, you can: 

  • Explain why THC levels are higher when dabbing
  • Discuss credible studies or findings on adolescent brain development
  • Share case studies or stories from reputable sources. You can also narrate your own relevant experiences, if any. Do not make up scenarios. 

Encourage Alternatives & Support Coping 

Teenagers often turn to drugs or substances for various reasons. These include curiosity, stress relief, or peer acceptance. Encourage and help them develop healthy coping skills. Here are a few recommended outlets: 

  • Music, sports, and art programs
  • Positive peer networks or support groups 
  • Stress management techniques, such as journaling and mindfulness

Monitor, Without Surveillance 

While engaging in your teenager’s life is okay, you must respect their privacy. Instead of spying on them: 

  • Show genuine interest in their daily life, activities, or experiences
  • Inquire about their friends and interests
  • Establish regular routines geared towards family connection 

Know When to Seek Help 

Certain situations or instances need immediate professional support. Seek specialized attention if any of the following happen:

  • Your teenager’s dabbing frequency increases
  • Your son’s or daughter’s mental health and academics worsen
  • Your teenager completely refuses to talk about their dabbing behavior This is especially necessary if you have tried to get them to speak several times

Consider factors like your teenager’s age and dabbing frequency when seeking help. You can consult a pediatrician or a mental health professional. You can also consider specialized treatment programs with qualified mental health professionals. 

Nexus Teen Academy’s Treatment for Marijuana Abuse

It can be isolating to discover that your son or daughter has been using drugs. However, help and hope are available for those who dab. You can redirect a dabbing teenager toward safety and growth through clear communication and professional support. 

Nexus Teen Academy helps teenagers navigate substance use. We offer expert insights, compassionate guidance, and evidence-based strategies. Our team tailors different programs to address unique needs. Contact us for the right tools and professional support if you are worried about your teenager. 

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)

Dabbing is much more potent than regular marijuana, owing to its high THC levels. Its “high” is more powerful and rapid. As a result, it exposes teenagers to adverse effects and dependence.

Dabbing is less widespread than marijuana use. However, its usage is fast increasing, especially among high school students. This is especially true in regions that have legalized marijuana. 

Dabbing and vaping are easier to conceal than smoking marijuana. For dabbing, look for unique paraphernalia. These include a “dab rig”, a scoop tool, and concentrated wax-like extracts. Red eyes and significant mood changes best signify marijuana. Look out for Increased thirst or appetite, too. 

Dabbing should trigger serious concern due to the exceptionally high THC concentration. Any drug or behavior that can cause acute effects like paranoia should not be considered normal experimentation.

Authoritative parenting can help prevent substance use in teens. It entails open and frequent communication and setting clear expectations. Parents also consistently enforce fair consequences with empathy. 

Educate yourself using reliable resources before approaching your teenager. You can rely on the National Institute on Drug Abuse for science-backed information and guides. For prevention toolkits, consider the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA). You can also get youth substance use facts and strategies from the CDC. 

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Executive Director Hannah Carr, LPC and nexus_admin