Learning that a teenager is intentionally hurting themselves is something that most parents dread thinking about. Parents who find themselves in such a scenario should understand they are not alone. Teen mental health crises are quite rampant, with roughly 20% of US high school students seriously considering suicide in recent studies. Despite such statistics, it …
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My Kid Is Not Showering
Imagine walking past your teenager’s room only to be hit by a unique wave of stale sweat. On paying close attention, you discover they have been wearing the same clothes for four days straight. When you try pointing out that they need to take better care of their hygiene, it becomes a confrontation. Such a …
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Why Teen Boys With Trauma Often Get Labeled as “Bad Kids”
Teen trauma can have immense effects on the developing brain. Research shows that individuals with traumatic pasts are likely to engage in problematic behaviors. For teenage boys, such behaviors are usually misunderstood as defiance or misconduct. This misunderstanding often leads them to be labeled as bad kids. Do not be quick to punish; instead, probe …
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Why Traumatized Teen Boys Shut Down Instead of Reaching Out
Research indicates that most teenagers experience multiple traumatic events over the course of childhood and more so during adolescence. Unfortunately, not all seek or receive help. Over time, some of them begin exhibiting behaviors that resemble emotional silence or social withdrawal. Most caregivers usually view the transition from being lively to withdrawn as direct defiance …
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Teen Reckless Driving or Car Rule Violations: Red Flags for Treatment Every Parent Needs to Recognize Early
Reckless driving by teens is often treated as a rite of passage. A speeding ticket becomes a warning, while a broken curfew becomes a lecture. Parents are told this is part of learning to drive. That explanation only holds when the behavior stops. Patterns such as aggressive driving, ignoring limits, or driving without permission reflect …
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